CHARACTERISTICS OF
A MODERN ALPHA MALE
….and how to become
one
First of all I
will start by explaining what an ‘Alpha Male’ is. Using human socio-sexual
dynamics, the term ‘Alpha Male’ originates in ancient years, primarily on
gorillas. A simplified term is that there exists a male hierarchy within
cultures based on strength and fitness. The strongest and fittest is the
“Alpha” and then you have second-place, third-place and so on. Due to the
advances we made as human beings the ‘Alpha Male’ turned from being the
strongest person to being the most dominant and there are a lot of
clarifications for that which will be explained below. One example is that if
someone is trying to cut you in line and you move out of the way out of fear,
clearly you’re being a beta-male.
·
Be
self-validated
The modern ‘Alpha Male’ does not
need validation from others in order of defining his confidence. You can get
"in state" from energy extracted purely from within your psyche. You
don't look to others for approval because you KNOW you're an all-star. You're amazing
and every fibre of your being knows it. You will not be knocked out of the state
because nothing can harm your ego. Settle for nothing less than the top.
·
Be firm
in your values
You have talked with yourself and constructed your deepest
inner values and self-beliefs. You are unwavering on these. These can include
things as basic as love of life, traveling, studying, religion, or not
tolerating condescension or self-defeating behaviour. These are the basic
pieces that make up your personality and it is important to know what they are.
The average, beta-male has trouble describing his personal values to others. He
looks to others to define who he is. This will not be you. YOU will define who
you are. Nobody else.
·
Be a
leader of men
People should look to you as a leader. You lead by example. You
lead, others follow. You set the tone for the night. When there's any doubt
about what the next move should be, you're the one who decides. You take women
by the hand. You're the one people look to when they're looking for a fun time.
You're assertive but also taking everyone's feelings into account.
·
Have
social proof and pre-selection
Everywhere you go, people want to be associated with you.
You have many friends. Beautiful women are part of your life. You accept this
as a God-given right. You own every room you're in. Your aura and air of
mystery attracts everyone. You have an abundance mentality because your life is
abundant.
·
Be
non-reaction seeking & non-reactive
How someone reacts to your behaviour is not particularly
important to you. You are self-validated and emanate awesomeness. You are
positive, understanding and beneficent to others yet do not need this fact
acknowledged. People react to YOU. You do not react to THEM. People seek your
approval which you dole out as appropriate. You are outcomes-independent.
·
Be fun
Everywhere you go, you BRING THE PARTY. You ARE the party!
You're able to have fun everywhere you go. You can turn a boring bar into the
place to be, just by stepping in the room. You're those people in the club
having more fun than everyone else. You're playful, teasing, and spontaneous
with the women in your life. People want to be with you and be blessed with the
value emanating from your pores.
·
Make sure
to dress and groom well
As a modern, ‘Alpha Male’, it's important to be well groomed
and dressed properly for your personality. People look up to you and it's
important to put effort into your appearance.
All in all, NO matter
how successful the ‘Alpha Male’ is in life, he is always seeking a higher level
with his health, wealth and relationships.
Sir George
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