For years now, the man is the hunter in the dating game. Reading this guide will help you turn the tables around, making women go out of their comfortable zones and chase you! A respectable level of attractiveness and wit is needed for "the plan" to work. The following easy steps will help you attract the woman you have been setting your target on for some time now.
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Make a magnetic first impression
While on the "first date" which can either be over a coffee, drinks at the pub or even at a lecture try to come off as confident and secure as possible. I would not suggest a first date at a club due to low levels of intellectual interaction but this can occur anywhere you feel comfortable at. If you come off as insecure or nervous then you can forget it! Topics for discussion can include: Business plans/achievements, Financial security, Personal beliefs, or even family life which can get you valuable points depending on your state.
Tip: Make her laugh!!
Be a challenge
Any guy that comes off as desperate to please or needy then he already has one foot in the "friend-zone". If you come across as a powerful personality with a lot going on in his life then you are already on your way to become the prey. Make yourself look busy and already in demand. E.g. if you are discussing for the next date don't give any promises - "Oh, I am not sure about Friday because I have this other thing going on, I will call you tomorrow and let you know" (also a good way to get her mobile number). If you do it right, she won't be able to stop waiting for your call.
Tip: Don't show a lot of affection, make her work for it!
Become the selector
Women have used to be the ones choosing the right partner. If you really want to turn the tables around, make her believe that she is the one being "interviewed" for a position as your love-partner.This step is extremely crucial in framing yourself as the selector. Ways to achieve this can include: "What makes you more interesting than the other girls I've dated?" "What are three things a guy would like about you?". If you can achieve this in a joking/sarcastic way then I can guarantee you that women will be drawn closer to you.
Tip: Be a Romeo searching for your Juliet!
Mystery and Suspense
Don't make yourself available from the first moment. In other words don't be an open book, instead make her try and find more information about you. An example "Listen, I have to get back to my friends, but maybe I'll see you later". If you are hanging around all the time then there won't be anticipation and this will lead to no driving force of making a woman coming after you! If you make yourself look scarce then you will leave her wanting for more!
Tip: Don't always reply to calls and messages!
The above are from personal experience and should only be used if it matches with your personality and the level of the women you are going after for. Remember, "Practise makes perfect" !!
George Kakourides
PHD in Women Sciences from Life University
Twitter: @SirGeorge22
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